Lately I’ve felt out of balance—facing friction at work, pushback from my team, and pressure to carry responsibilities that aren’t mine. Through reflection and tarot, I realized corporate culture has been mislabeling my strengths as flaws: clarity as rigidity, boundaries as resistance, and passion as intensity. This journey isn’t about losing myself—it’s about shedding an old identity and stepping into authentic leadership on my own terms.

I used to think I had to shrink myself to be accepted — until I realized being “too much” was actually just me being real. Recently, I triggered a group by simply showing up as myself, and it hit me hard. But I’m learning that discomfort doesn’t mean I did something wrong. It means I’m no longer available for performative spaces. I’m here to spark something deeper — and that’s powerful.

Loving an avoidant feels like chasing a high—you get glimpses of deep connection, only to be met with silence when you open your heart. I used to think if I just loved harder, it would work. But the truth is, healing began the moment I stopped pouring into someone who couldn’t hold me—and started choosing myself instead.

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I used to shrink myself for love, hoping someone would finally choose me. But they weren’t ready — and now I know, that had nothing to do with my worth.

This 4/4 portal reminded me: I don’t need to be chosen. I choose me.

If someone couldn’t love you the way you needed, let that be your awakening — not your downfall.

You’re not too much.
You’re just not meant to beg for the bare minimum anymore. 🖤