Struggling to let go of someone you deeply connected with? Discover how releasing control, healing soul ties, and trusting the timing of your life can help you reclaim your power and peace.

I was taught that love had to be earned—through silence, obedience, and staying small. But I’m done shrinking. This is my story of breaking free from shame, reclaiming my truth, and choosing myself—fully and unapologetically.

Turning 33 changed everything. I ended a relationship that no longer served me, faced my fears around money, and chose to create my own version of security—on my own terms. This is the story of how I reclaimed my power, found my stability, and began living life for me.

If you’re paralyzed with fear, it might actually mean you’re on the right path. In this post, I open up about how resistance has shaped my biggest life changes—and why fear is often a sign that what you’re avoiding is exactly what you’re meant to do.

I used to shrink myself for love, hoping someone would finally choose me. But they weren’t ready — and now I know, that had nothing to do with my worth.

This 4/4 portal reminded me: I don’t need to be chosen. I choose me.

If someone couldn’t love you the way you needed, let that be your awakening — not your downfall.

You’re not too much.
You’re just not meant to beg for the bare minimum anymore. 🖤

This eclipse energy has been heavy—but it’s also been healing. I’ve been shedding old relationships, setting unapologetic boundaries, and finally choosing myself. If you’ve been feeling the pressure too, you’re not alone. This blog dives into my personal purge, what I’ve learned, and a powerful tarot spread to help you reflect and realign.

You’re not just looking for a new home—you’re creating a life that actually fits you. One that honors your freedom, your joy, and your truth. Let go of the “shoulds,” trust your vision, and start building a future that feels like home—from the inside out.

I thought I was surrendering, being intentional, and making grounded decisions—but if I’m being honest, I was struggling to let go. My tarot deck had become my security blanket, giving me every answer because I was too afraid to trust my own instincts. If you’ve ever felt stuck, waiting for signs instead of trusting yourself, this is for you. Let’s break the cycle of external validation and step into self-trust together.

Are you stuck reminiscing about the past instead of embracing the present? That realization hit me hard this week. I’ve always been a forward-thinker, but lately, doubt has made me question everything. A festival in my old town brought back memories—both empowering and painful. Instead of celebrating my wins, I found myself fixated on what I left behind. But here’s the truth: real growth isn’t about dwelling on the past, it’s about carrying its lessons forward. Moving ahead takes patience, self-trust, and the willingness to release what no longer serves you.

I kept chasing the next big thing—Mexico, a new relationship, a fresh start—only to realize I was losing myself in the process. Self-doubt took over. But instead of staying stuck, I turned to tarot, self-care, and deep reflection to rebuild my confidence—one step at a time. If you’ve ever felt lost, know this: You are not broken. Your confidence is still within you, waiting to rise again. 💛

I reflect on navigating personal upheaval after ending a relationship and facing homelessness. Seeking solace with family in Florida, I confront feelings of uncertainty and stagnation. Through daily tarot practices and journaling, I gain insights into my emotional state, acknowledging exhaustion and the need to release control. I emphasize the importance of self-awareness, embracing change, and reconnecting with passions to align with one's authentic self.

Feeling drained and stuck in overthinking? Sometimes, the fear of uncertainty holds us back more than our actual circumstances. I've been clinging to a false sense of security, trying to control everything—but what if letting go is the key to moving forward? Trusting the unknown is terrifying, but it’s also where the magic happens. Maybe the life we truly want is waiting for us on the other side of surrender.

Discover how to identify and release emotional blocks from past traumas with our comprehensive guide. Explore the impact of childhood trauma and abandonment on relationships and self-worth, and learn how to find emotional fulfillment beyond material possessions. This unique workbook integrates advanced Tarot insights for a deeper understanding and practical healing strategies, helping you align your actions with your vision and values. Start your journey to emotional freedom and personal growth today.

Struggling with mental fog after intense focus and creativity? Discover how my Clouded Mindset Workbook, combined with Tarot insights, can help you regain clarity, overcome depressive episodes, and stay on track with your goals. Learn how these strategies transformed my life, enabling me to list my house, secure a new job, and grow my business.

Struggling with anxiety and insomnia? Discover how journaling, medication, and building self-confidence can break the insomnia cycle. Learn from my personal journey through emotional manipulation and silent treatment to find effective strategies for better sleep and mental well-being.

Discover how to recognize gaslighting in relationships through my personal journey. Learn about the signs, the emotional impact, and effective healing strategies, including therapy, journaling, and setting boundaries. Explore the benefits of a red flags workbook to prevent repeating toxic relationship patterns and build self-confidence.

Discover the ultimate Tarot cheat sheet designed for both beginners and seasoned readers. This guide offers personalized interpretations, advanced insights, and practical advice, making it a unique and invaluable tool for enhancing your Tarot practice. Learn how to navigate card meanings, understand card combinations, and apply actionable guidance to your readings. Perfect for anyone looking to deepen their Tarot knowledge and gain confidence in their readings.

Discover how shadow work journaling can help you confront and transform your inner critic, especially regarding body image issues. Learn why incorporating Tarot into your anxiety management workbook offers unique insights and deeper self-understanding. Explore effective strategies for addressing negative self-talk, fostering self-compassion, and using Tarot as a tool for personal growth and healing.

Discover the transformative power of monthly intention setting with our comprehensive guide. Learn why setting monthly intentions is crucial for aligning your actions with long-term goals, enhancing mindfulness, and fostering personal growth. Our custom template, designed for both beginners and seasoned practitioners, offers a structured approach to setting, tracking, and reviewing your intentions. Whether you use it with or without tarot cards, this practice will help you stay focused, improve well-being, and continuously grow. Start today and create a vision for long-term success.

Discover how to align your goals and achieve success with weekly intention setting using Tarot. Our structured Tarot spread guides you through setting clear, actionable intentions, overcoming challenges, leveraging your strengths, and receiving cosmic advice. Learn how to integrate this powerful practice into your routine for enhanced focus, motivation, and personal growth.